Sunday, 17 March 2013

Proofs for Visitation of the Graves by Women


Ya RasulAllah Ya RasulAllah Ya RasulAllahالصلوۃ والسلام علیک یا سیدی یارسول اللہ وعلٰی آلک واصحابک یا سیدی یا حبیب اللہ الصلوۃ والسلام علیک یا سیدی یا نور من نور اللہ وعلیٰ الک واصحابک یا سیدی یا خیر خلق اللہ الصلوۃ والسلام علیک یا سیدی یا شفیع المذنبین وعلیٰ الک واصحابک یا سیدی یا رحمۃ اللعٰلمین اَلّٰھُمَّ صَلِّی عَلٰی مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلٰی آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَبْارک وَصَلَّ
Proofs for Visitation of the Graves by Womenby Shaykh Gibril F. Haddad
“The most correct position is that the dispensation (rukhsa)  for the visitation of graves is firmly established for women.” – Ibn ‘Àbidïn  [1]

In his Advice to our Brothers the Scholars of Najd, Sayyid Yusuf al-Rifà‘ï states: “You forbid women from vis­iting the noble Baqï‘ with no agreed-upon, clear and explicit proof from the Law!” The following is a dem­onstration of the permis­si­bility of visits to al-Baqï‘ according to the princi­ples of Sacred Law and the proof-texts of the Sunna.
Those who object to the visitation of graves by women adduce chiefly three h .adïths as their proof, two of these being the weak-chained narra­tions, (a) “Allàh curses the women who visit the graves” [2] (la‘ana Allàhu zà’iràt al-qubur) and (b) “Allàh curses the women who visit the graves and take them for places of worship and candles,” [3] the third one being, (c) “Allàh curses the women who fre­quently visit the grave s” [4](la‘ana Allàhu zawwà­ràt al-qubur).
As indicated by Sayyid al-Rifà‘ï, the above narrations do not constitute “agreed-upon, clear and explicit proof from the Law” for the prohibition of women from visiting graves in Islàm. Accordingly, the majority of the Ulema concur that women are permitted to visit the graves if there is no danger of temptation and sin. [5] This is established by the following proofs:
1.       The Prophet said: “I forbade you to visit the graves but [now] do visit them!” [6] There is no proof for restricting this absolute permission to men alone.
2.       ‘À’isha  ) #  said: “The Prophet eforbade the visitation of graves then permitted it, and I think he said: ‘For, truly, they remind you of the hereafter.’” [7] ‘À’isha’s practice and further comments confirm that she understood this Prophetic dispensation as absolute.
3.       ‘À’isha  ) #  came to Makka after her brother’s death saying, “Where is the grave of my brother?” Then she came to the grave and prayed over him, a month after his death. [8] Another version states that Ibn Abï Mulayka said: “‘À’isha’s brother died six miles away from Makka, so we carried him until we reached Makka and buried him there. ‘À’isha came to us after that and reproached us for doing so. Then she said: ‘Where is the grave of my brother?’ We showed it to her and she alighted in her howdah and prayed at his grave.” [9]
4.       When ‘Abd Allàh ibn Abï Mulayka saw ‘À’isha  ) #  visiting the grave of her brother ‘Abd al-Ra h .màn he said to her: “Did not the Prophet eforbid this [vi­sitation of graves]?” She replied: “Yes, he had forbidden it. Then he or­dered to visit them.” [10] Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr mentions that Imàm A h .mad ad­duces this report as proof that women are permitted to visit the graves. [11]
The wording and verb tenses used by the Prophet eand the Compan­ions in the above narrations show that these narrations explicitly abrogate the narrations that express prohibi­tion. This is confirmed by al- H .àkim who nar­rated the h .adïth: “Allàh curses the women who fre­quently visit the graves” then said: “Those narrations pertaining to prohi­bition from visiting the graves are abrogate d, the abrogator being the h .adïth of ‘Alqama ibn Marthad, from Sulaymàn ibn Burayda, from his father, from the Prophet e: ‘I for­bade you to visit the graves but [now] do visit them!’” [12]
5.       Due to her strictness and, perhaps, in confirmation of Ibn Abï Mulayka’s remark, ‘À’isha  ) #  disliked to visit the grave of her brother as is evident from her remark in al-Tirmidhï’s report of her visitation to ‘Abd al-Ra h .màn: “If I had been present at the time of your death I would have never visited you [now].” [13] Yet this is an­other proof that she did not un­derstand the Prophet’s eprohibition as absolute – were it not abrogated – since she did allow her­self the visitation of her brother despite it.
6.       The Prophet epassed by a woman who was weeping next to a grave and said: “Fear Allàh and be steadfast!” She replied: “Leave me alone! You were not afflicted with my affliction” – without recognizing him. Then she was told this was the Prophet e. She came to see him and, not finding anyone at the door she [entered directly and] said, “I did not recognize you!” He said: “Steadfastness is only at the first shock.” [14] If women were prohibited from visiting graves, the Prophet ewould have prohibited her in the first place.
7.       ‘À’isha  ) # asked: “What should I say, Messenger of Allàh [at al-Baqï‘]?” He re­plied: “Say: ‘Greeting to you, people of the abodes among the men and women believers! May Allàh grant mercy to those of you and us who went ahead and those who tarried back! Truly we shall – if Allàh wills – join up with you.’” [15]
Al-Bayhaqï, Ibn H .ajar and al-Nawawï said that the above narrations show that it is per­mitted for women to visit the graves in confirmation of ‘À’isha’s visitation of her brother, as the Prophet eonly admonished the mourning woman to be stead­fast without for­bidding her from visiting the grave, and he gave instructions to ‘À’isha ) #  on what to say when visiting the graves. [16]
8.       The Prophet esaid: “I had forbidden you to visit the graves but Mu h .am­mad has been permitted to visit the grave of his mother, so visit them, for truly, they remind you of the hereafter.” [17]
9.       Another version states: “I had forbidden you to visit the graves but do visit them for they truly remind one of the hereafter.” [18]
10.    Another version states: “Whoever wants to visit the graves [may], truly they remind of the hereafter.” [19]
11.    Another version states: “I had forbidden you to visit the graves but do visit them, for they help to renounce the world and they remind of the hereafter.” [20]
12.    Another version states: “I forbade you to visit the graves then it appeared to me that they soften the heart, bring tears to the eyes, and remind one of the hereafter. Therefore, visit them, but do not say reprehensible things!” [21]
13.    It is established the Prophet placed a rock on top of ‘Uthmàn ibn Maz‘an’s t grave saying: “With it I shall designate the grave of my [milk-]brother and later bury in it who­ever dies among my relatives.” [22]
The proof for the visitation of women in the above five narrations is that the positive effects of remembering the hereafter, weeping, and softening the heart are not exclusively lim­ited to men but extend to women as well. There­fore women are also addressed by these narrations which are to be taken in the most general, inclusive sense. This is confirmed by the practice of Fàtima – Allàh be well-pleased with her! – the daughter of the Prophet as shown in the following two narrations:
14.    Imàm Ja‘far al- Sàdiq narrated with his chain from al- Hasan  ibn ‘Alï  that Fàtima the daughter of the Prophet e– may Allàh be well-pleased with all of them! – used to visit the grave of her uncle Hamza ibn ‘Abd al-Muttalib every Jumu‘a [23] and she used to pray and weep there. [24] An­other version adds that she had marked the grave with a rock in order to rec­ognize it. [25] Another version states that she used to tend the grave and repair any damage it had incurred. [26]
15.    The women wept over Ruqiyya – Allàh be well-pleased with her! – when she died, so ‘Umar tried to forbid them but the Messenger of Allàh said, “Wait, ‘Umar!” Then he said: “[Women,] beware of the devil’s croaking! As long as it comes from the eye and the heart, it is coming from mercy; and as long as it comes from the tongue and the hand, [27] it is coming from Satan.” Whereupon, Fàtima began to weep over the grave of Ruqiyya and the Prophet was wiping her tears from her face with his hand – or, the narrator said, his sleeve. [28]
In the Hanafï School, it is permitted for women to visit the grave as long as they are properly dressed and ensure that there is no undue intermixing with non-ma h .ram men and that they do not behave inappropriatel y, such as wailing. The Fatàwà Hindiyya (5:350), one of the foremost references for fatwa in the School, says: “The Scholars differed about women visiting graves. Al-Sarakhsï said that the soundest position is that it is not wrong.” Al-Sarakhsï states in al-Mabsat (24:10): “The soundest opinion in our School is that the dispensation (to visit graves) is present for both men and women, because it has been related that ‘À’isha ) #  used to visit the grave of the Messenger of Allàh eat all times, and that when she went on Hajj she visited the grave of her brother ‘Abd al-Rahmàn” This is confirmed by Ibn Nujaym in his al-Bahral-Rà’iq. Ibn ‘Àbidïn said in his super commentary on this work, Minhat al-Khàliq Hàshiyat al-Bahral-Rà’iq (2:210), that al-Ramlï said: “As for women, if they visit graves to renew their sorrows, or to cry and wail, as is the customary practice of many, it is not allowed for them to visit graves. This is how the Prophetic hadïth “Allàh has cursed women who visit graves,” is understood. As for if they visit for contemplation, compassion, and seeking baraka by visiting the graves of the righteous, then it is not wrong if they are elderly. It is disliked if they are young [i.e. there is fear of fitna from their attending]. Among that which shows that women’s visiting graves is not unlawful is the hadith narrated by Anas tthat, “The Prophet passed by a woman who was crying by a grave. He said, ‘Fear Allàh and be patient.’” The permissibility is implied, said the Fuqahà’, because he did not forbid her from visiting the grave; had it been unlawful it would have been obligatory for the Prophet to forbid her. [29]
Even if we should consider the first two of the three hadïths adduced by the objectors (a and b) authentic as a handful of scholars did, they do not form proof for prohibition, for two reasons. First, they are abro­gated accord­ing to the correct view as demonstrated. Second, they elucidate one an­other and are elucidated by the third hadïth adduced (c), in the sense that the curse does not concern women who visit the graves in absolute terms, but only those women who both (1) visit exces­sively and (2) commit certain rep­re­hen­sible acts during visita­tion as stated by al-Tirmidhï, al-Baghawï, al- Tahàwï, al-Qurtubï, and others. [30] This qualified prohibition is confirmed by the fact that the soundest version of the prohibition hadïth states, “Allàh curses the women who frequently visit the graves,” in which case the prohibition is patently restrictive, concerning only a specific group of women and not all of them.
Another confirmation is that this qualified prohibition extends to men as well, as stated in the hadïth of the Prophet e: “Allàh curse the Jews and Christians! They took the graves of their Prophets as places of worship.” [31] This men-inclusive qualified prohibi­tion is further con­firmed by the version stating: “I forbade you from visiting the graves and now [allow you to] visit them, but do not utter words that make your Lord angry!” [32]
The gist of this documentation is not that Muslim women today are in­differently per­mitted to visit the graves, since temptation and sin abound in our time and there is little or no obser­vance of the etiquette of Sacred Law shown by either Muslim men or women who visit the graves. To say the least, as al-Bayhaqï said: “If women keep themselves clear from following fu­neral processions, going out to cemeteries, and visiting graves, it would be healthier for their Re­ligion – and from Allàh comes success.” [33] Al- Hakïm al-Tirmidhï elaborated upon it in Asl 15 of his Nawàdir al-Usul.
Yet, the negative situation of contemporary Muslim visitors to city and country cemeteries hardly ap­plies to the women pilgrims who visit al-Baqï‘ and the Prophet in Madïna, where the effusion of emotion is somehow counter-balanced by the natural deco­rum of Madïna al-Munawwara. There­fore their status there should be that of allow­ance together with male Mus­lims rather than pro­hi­bition as confirmed by the fatwà of the Ulema and contrary to the claims of a handful of Wahhàbï dissenters such as the late ‘Abd al-‘Azïz ibn Baz, Muhammad ibn Ibràhïm ibn ‘Abd al-Latïf, Hammàd al-An sàrï and his student Bakr Abu Zayd, Abu Bakr al-Jazà’irï, and others of those with religious jurisdiction of the Two Sanctuaries.
As for the absolute prohibition, including the Mosque and al-Baqï‘ in Madïna, insisted upon by the Saudi Bakr Abu Zayd in his epistle titled Juz’ fï Ziyàrat al-Nisà’ lil-Qubur [34] and his odd claims that (a) the narrations prohibiting women from fol­lowing the funeral bier apply to prove the prohibition of visi­tation and (b)zawwàràt is incorrect and must be read zuwwàràt in the sense of female visitors, without the sense of frequency: [35] such claims stem from an un­rea­sonable, stub­born rejection of the evi­dence and a blind following of the familiar founts of originality and noncon­formity – Ibn Taymiyya and Ibn al-Qayyim. But truth is more de­serv­ing of being fol­lowed than famous figures.
A book by the title Morals and Manners in Islàm: A Guide to Islamic Àdàb (Leicester: The Islamic Foundation, 1986, reprinted 1989 and 1991) by Marwàn Ibràhïm al-Kaysï contains the following errors with regard to the visitation of cemeteries and their architecture:
  1. The author states [p. 171]: “There are two main purposes for a Muslim to visit a cemetery: to pray for the dead, and to remind himself of the Hereafter.” A third purpose is to obtain baraka or blessing, and a fourth is to supplicate for one’s needs at places of particular blessing, espe­cially through the visitation of the Prophet e and the Awliyà’ such as the Companions etc. There is Con­sensus in Islàm that travel to visit the Prophet eis a desirable act of worship (qurba) as stipulated in Qàdi‘Iyàd’s al-Shifà’ and it is authentically related from Imàm al-Shàfi‘ï that he used to pray next to Imàm Abu Hanïfa’s grave in Baghdàd in order to ask for the fulfill­ment of his needs there. [36]
  2. On the same page the author makes the poorly-phrased statement that “Violating Islamic teachings while at the cemetery is forbidden.” Surely, it is not allowed at any time or place! This is the danger of departing from the meticulous phrasing of the experts in Fiqh.
  3. On the same page the author says: “Nothing is to be said over the grave other than [‘Peace be upon the Muslim and faithful inhabitants of the abode s. May God show mercy to those of us who go before and those who go after and God willing, we will meet you’], except to pray for the dead.” Further down [p. 179] he claims: “It is an innova­tion to admonish the dead person after his death.” This is all incorrect, as it is desirable (mustahabb) or Sunna to give talqïn or instruction to the dead after burial, even according to Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Abd al-Wahhàb in his Ahkàm Tammanï al-Mawt. There is extensive evidence for this as presented in the Encyclopedia of Islamic Doctrine and The Reliance of the Traveller (p. 921-924 w32.1-2). The fact that a person is dead and buried does not mean he cannot hear the living. It is a salient feature of modernists that they deny many beliefs and practices connected with ghayb.
  4. The author also claims [p. 171]: “It is forbidden to touch any grave with the intention of gaining a blessing from it.” This is also incorrect and the correct ruling is that it is disliked, although some – such as Imàm Ahmad ibn Hanbal – declared there was no harm in touching or even kissing the Prophet’s grave. Al-Dhahabï even labeled as Khawàrij those who would dispute this fact.
  5. The author claims [p. 184]: “Upright tombstones on the grave itself are forbidden.” If by the upright tombstones are meant the grave’s signposts (shàhidàn) then this claim is utterly rejected and disproved by age-old Islamic practice from East to West.
  6. On the same page he states: “No form of construction should be erected on graves… Graves must not be plastered with gypsum.” The truth is there is difference of opinion on this subject and two reasons were mentioned for the permissibility of building up the grave or plastering it with gypsum: to protect it from collapse generally speaking, and to keep it in the public view if it is the grave of a Shaykh, a Scholar, or someone from the family of the Prophet e as mentioned in Ibn ‘Àbidïn’s Hàshiya (1:601). Shaykh Ismà‘ïl Haqqï said in his Qur’anic commentary Ruhal-Bayàn under the verse The mosques of Allàh may only be built and maintained by those who believe in Allàh and the Day of Judgement, perform the prayers and give zakàt, and are afraid of none other than Allàh and they are those who are guided(9:18):
Shaykh ‘Abd a l-Ghanï a l-Nàbulusï said in Kashf al-Nur ‘an Ashàb al-Qubur (“The Unveil­ing of Light from the Occupants of the Graves”) the sum of which is that a good innovation that agrees with the objectives of the Sacred Law is called a sunna. Thus, building domes over the graves of Scholars, friends of Allàh (awliyà) and the righteous and placing covers, turbans and cloth over them is permissible if the objective therein is to create reverence in the eyes of ordinary people so that they will not disdain the occupant of that grave.
If the above were not the case, or if it were not in conformity with the Sunna, then ponder the statement of our Mother ‘À’isha in Abu Dàwud’s Sunan: “When the Negus died, we were told [i.e. by the Prophet e] that a light would be seen perpetually at his grave.”
May Allàh enlighten our understandings, our hearts, and our graves with His kindness and forgiveness! Wa- sallà Allàhu ‘alà Sayyidinà Muhammadin wa-‘alà Àlihi wa- Sahbihi wa-Sallam.

[1]Ibn ‘Àbidïn, Hàshiya (1386/1966 ed. 2:242).
[2]Narrated from Abu Hurayra by Ibn Hibbàn in his Sahïh (7:452 #3178) with a weak chain because of ‘Umar ibn Abï Salama ibn ‘Abd al-Ra hmàn al-Zuhrï who is weak as stated by al-Arna’ut and Ma‘ruf in Tahrïr al-Taqrïb (3:74 #4910). Also narrated from Hassàn ibn Thàbit from the Prophet by Ibn Abï Shayba (3:31) with a weak chain because of ‘Abd al-Ra hmàn ibn Bahman who is of unknown rank as a narrator (majhul). The hadïth itself is acceptable as “fair due to witness and corrobo­rating chains and versions” ( hasan lighayrih) as stated by al-Arna’ut in the Musnad (5:128 n. 2).
[3]Narrated from Ibn ‘Abbàs by al-Tirmidhï ( hasan), Abu Dàwud, al-Nasà’ï in both in al-Sunan and al-Sunan al-Kubrà (1:657 #2174), Ahmad, Ibn Abï Shayba (2:151, 3:30), al- Tahàwï in Sharh Mushkil al-Àthàr(12:178-179 #4741-4742), al-Baghawï in Sharh al-Sunna (2:416-417 #510), Ibn Hibbàn (7:452-454 #3179-3180), al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:530) who indicated its weakness, al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:78 #6992), Ibn al-Ja‘d in his Musnad (p. 224), al- Tabarànï in al-Kabïr (12:148), and al-Haythamï in Mawàrid al- Zam’àn (p. 200), all with the same weak chain containing Abu Sàlih Mawlà Umm Hàni’ who is weak as stated by Ibn Hajar in al-Mundhirï’s al-Targhïb (1997 ed. 4:190) and al-Arna’ut in Sahïh Ibn Hibbàn and the Musnad(5:128 #2984). However, the hadïth itself is acceptable since al-Tirmidhï and al-Baghawï declared it “fair”; while Ibn al-Sakan included it among the sound ( sahïh .) narrations as stated by Ibn al-Mulaqqin in Tuhfat al-Muhtàj (2:31).
[4]Narrated from Abu Hurayra by al-Tirmidhï ( hasan sahïh ), Ibn Màjah, and Ahmad; from Ibn ‘Abbàs by Ibn Màjah with a weak chain because of Abu Sàli h; and from Hassàn ibn Thàbit by Ibn Màjah and Ahmad with a weak chain because of ‘Abd al-Ra hmàn ibn Bahmàn. Note: Ibn Màjah’s versions have zuwwàràt.
[5]As stated by Ibn Hajar in Fat hal-Bàrï (1959 ed. 3:148), al-Shawkànï in Nayl al-Aw tàr (chapters on burial and the rulings pertaining to graves), and al-Mubàrakfurï in Tu hfat al-A hwadhï (4:139).
[6]Narrated as part of a longer hadïth: from Burayda by Muslim, al-Tirmidhï (hasan sahïh), Abu Dàwud, al-Nasà’ï, ‘Abd al-Razzàq (3:569), and others; from Abu Sa‘ïd al-Khudrï by Ahmad with a chain of sound narrators as stated by al-Haythamï (3:58), Màlik, al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:530) who declared it sound by Muslim’s criterion, al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:77 #6984), and al-Bazzàr with a chain of sound narrators as stated by al-Haythamï (3:58); from Ibn Mas‘ud by Ibn Màjah, al-Dàraqu tnï in his Sunan(4:259), ‘Abd al-Razzàq (3:572-573), Ibn Hibbàn (3:261), al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:531), and al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:77 #6983) all with weak chains according to al-Arna’ut from Anas by Ahmad and al-Bazzàr with chains containing al- Hàrith ibn Nabhàn who is weak according to al-Haythamï (4:27), al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:531-532), and al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:77 #6984).
[7]Narrated by al-Bazzàr with a chain of trustworthy narrators as stated by al-Haythamï (3:58).
[8]Narrated from Ibn Abï Mulayka by al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà 4:49).
[9]Narrated by ‘Abd al-Razzàq (3:518) and Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr in al-Tamhïd (6:261).
[10]Narrated by Abu Ya‘là (8:284) with a sound chain, al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:532), al-Bayhaqï in al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:78 #6993), and Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr in al-Tamhïd (3:233).
[11]Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr, al-Tamhïd (3:234).
[12]Al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:530).
[13]Narrated from ‘Abd Allàh ibn Mulayka by al-Tirmidhï.
[14]Narrated from Anas in all the Six Books.
[15]Narrated as part of a longer hadïth by Muslim and al-Nasà’ï.
[16]Al-Bayhaqï, al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:78), Ibn Hajar, Fath al-Bàrï (1959 ed. 3:184); al-Nawawï, Sharh Sahïh Muslim (7:41-42).
[17]Narrated from Burayda by al-Tirmidhï ( h .asan s .a h .ï h .).
[18]Part of a longer hadïth narrated from Burayda by Ahmad.
[19]Part of a longer hadïth narrated from Burayda by al-Nasà’ï.
[20]Narrated from Ibn Mas‘ud by Ibn Màjah.
[21]Part of a longer hadïth narrated from Anas by Ahmad.
[22]Narrated from an unnamed Companion by Abu Dàwud and al-Bayhaqï in al-Kubra (3:412) with fair chains cf. Ibn Hajar, Talkhï sal- Habïr (2:134); Ibn al-Mulaqqin, Tuhfat al-Muhtàj (2:29), and al-Arna’ut’s edition of Ibn al-Qayyim’s Zàd al-Ma‘àd (1:506). The complete report states that the Prophet asked a man to place a rock on top of Ibn Ma z‘un’s grave; when he was unable to move it, he rolled up his sleeves and helped him and the whi­teness of his arms was visible. Ibn Ma z‘un was the first of the Muhàjirun buried in Baqï‘ al-Gharqad Ibràhïm, the Prophet’s son, was buried next to him.
[23]Narrated to here from Ja‘far ibn Muhammad, from his father, without mention of al- Hasan by ‘Abd al-Razzàq (3:572) with a broken (munqa ti‘) chain.
[24]Narrated by al- Hàkim (1990 ed. 1:533, 3:30) who declared its chain sound, al-Bayhaqï, al-Sunan al-Kubrà (4:78), and Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr in al-Tamhïd (3:234) al­though al-Dhahabï condemns it strenuously while al-Bayhaqï alludes to its weakness.
[25] Al-Athram and Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr narrated it as mentioned by al-Qurtubī in his Tafsīr (10:381); also ‘Abd al-Razzāq (3:574) with a very weak chain because of al-Asbagh ibn Nubata, who is discarded (matrūk) as a narrator.
[26] Al-Hakīm al-Tirmidhī in Nawādir al-Usūl (Asl 15)
[27] A reference to imprecations and the slapping of the cheeks still exhibited today by mourning Arab Christian women and other non-Muslims.
[28] Narrated from Ibn ‘Abbās by Ahmad, al-Tayālisī (2:351) and al-Bayhaqī in al-Sunan al-Kubrā (4:70 #6946) with a chain containing ‘Alī ibn Zayd ibn Jud‘ān. Al-Bayhaqī considers this hadīth sound as it is confirmed by established narrations. It is partly narrated – but with an identical chain by al-Hākim. (3:190 1990 ed 3:210) where al-Dhahabī said: “Its chain is passable (sālih),” however, in his Mīzān (3:129) he grades the report “rejected” (munkar) due to Fā tima’s presence at the burial..
[29] This paragraph from Shaykh Farāz Rabbānī with slight editing..
[30] Cf. al-Tirmidhī in his Sunan after narrating the hadīth of zawwārāt from Abū Hurayra; al-Tahāwī inSharh Mushkil al-Āthār (12:179-186); al-Baghawī in Sharh al-Sunna (2:417, 5:464); and al-Qurtubī in hisTafsīr (20:170), as cited by al-Shawkānī in Nayl al-Awtar (chapters on burial and the rulings pertain­ing to graves)..
[31] Narrated from ‘Ā’isha by al-Bukhārī and Muslim..
[32] Narrated from Abū Sa‘īd by al-Bazzār with a chain of sound narrators as stated by al-Haythamī (3:58); from Ibn ‘Abbās by al-Azdī in his Musnad (p. 194); and from Anas by Ahmad, Abū Ya‘lā (6:372), and Ibn Abī Shayba (3:29)..
[33] Al-Bayhaqī, al-Sunan al-Kubrā (4:78)..
[34] In his al-Ajzā’ al-Hadīthiyya (p. 107-141)..
[35] Even al-Mu‘allimī reads it zawwārāt and defines it as “those who frequently visit” in his ‘Imārat al-Qubur(p. 156)
[36] Narrated by al-Khat ībin Tārīkh Baghdād (1:123) and Ibn Abīal-Wafā’in Tabaqātal-Hanafiyya.(p.519) 

Sunday, 3 March 2013

Anew Fitna is rising. Be prepare yourself and charge your brains to answer this Fitna



Irfan Kasسائیں
12 hours ago ·
Islam does not depend on the research of any science or scientist. It totally depends on the Quran and the words and acts od our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam. If today science say that eating pork is prohibited for Human body according to research, it does not make any effect on Islam and the followers. Neither it will give any kind of increase to Islam nor any kind of decrease. Muslims are those who act according to the act and teachings of our beloved last prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam. Your mentally sick questions will not be able to make any kind of decrease in Islamic rules and laws set by our Lord Allah. Muslim is a person who accept the total submission to the acts and sayings of our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam. For the people like you and your mental sickness, there is only one question and one challenge that Quran is giving since last 1400 years. So just try to solve this challenge and then impose your sick thoughts to other Muslims. """"Bring a single Ayat that can be similar to the verse in Quran????"""""" Are you ready to accomplish this challenge??????
Like · Owais Hussain and 2 others like this.Ahmed Ali " Indeed, we shall produce a thousand similar, from the works of rhetoricians, eloquent speakers and valiant poets, which are more appropriately phrased and state the issues more succinctly. They convey the meaning better and their rhymed prose is in better meter. , By God what you say astonishes us! You are talking about a work which recounts ancient myths, and which at the same time is full of contradictions and does not contain any useful information or explanation. Then you say: "Produce something like it"?!"
-Al-Razi
-Al-Razi
11 hours ago · Like · 1Irfan Kas My Dear this is a challenge given since last 1400 years by our Lord Allah itself not from any human. So if you would bow your head it will be good for you only not for us. We are not here to make you the same like we are. You are eager to change us Muslims, so just accomplish this challenge and you will win the heart of all.
11 hours ago · LikeIrfan Kas We are not here in the debate that how old is this? I am only telling you that it is 1400 years old. But the challenge is still there for all nonbelievers.
11 hours ago · LikeIrfan Kas And keep in mind Religion is, will and was only one. The name is Islam. All the other things are just the disturbed thoughts of Humans for his selfishness.
11 hours ago · Like · 1Imam Bukhari i give u a similar challenge ........make a painting like leonardo davinci
make a verse like ghalib's poetry .....compose a piece of music like beethoven .....aur agar tum sachay ho to ek COMPUTER ko chor kar pori duniya mai jiski chaho madad le lo
aur beshak tum aisa na kar sako gey ......aur jab fail ho jao challenge mai to in sab pe bhi emaan le ana ke ye allah ke banday thay
make a verse like ghalib's poetry .....compose a piece of music like beethoven .....aur agar tum sachay ho to ek COMPUTER ko chor kar pori duniya mai jiski chaho madad le lo
aur beshak tum aisa na kar sako gey ......aur jab fail ho jao challenge mai to in sab pe bhi emaan le ana ke ye allah ke banday thay
10 hours ago · LikeIrfan Kas My challenge is this that you take the help of computer also and bring the similar verse like Quran.
29 minutes ago · LikeIrfan Kas According to your point you make yourself a defeated person in your question only. Since you know that it is possible to do

 

with computer. And the challenge of Quran is lasting since 1400 years my Dear.
27 minutes ago · LikeIrfan Kas This era is proving itself that the Quran is the book of Allah and it is unchallengable forever. Either we use computer or something more powerful then this machine. The challenge will remain unanswered.

Friday, 1 March 2013

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Tuesday, 29 January 2013

The Birth of our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam

Hazrat Amina stayed pregnant for 9 months. During
this time she never feel any problem like pregnant
women feels. His(SAW) father already died. Angels
said "Ya Allah! your Prophet will be born an orphan".
Allah said "I will be his Savior and helper". Every one
(angels) get blessings by his birth. Doors of heavens and skies were open.

Hazrat Amina says "After 6 months of pregnancy, a
person came in dream. He touched with his foot and
said "Oh Amina! you are conceiving the most
respectful person of the universe. When he will be
born, name him Mohammad(SAW)." Then she says, "when the time of birth
came near i
heard a voice which make me frightant, no one was
near me. Then i saw some one rubbed a white
feather like thing to me and because of that all the
fear was gone. I was feeling thirsty, at that time i was
offered a juice, white like milk which i drink, and because of it
every thing was lightening. Then i saw
tall women who
gathered me. They were looking the daughters of
the trip Abd Manaf. I was surprise because of there
strange incidents. Then i saw silky dress between
earth and sky and some one said "Take the kid and hide him from
people". Then i saw some people who
were standing in air carrying silver bottles. Birds
gathered my house. There peeks were of Zabarjad
and wings were of diamonds. Allah took all the
curtains away from my eyes. I saw east and west and
i saw 3 flags. 1 in east, 1 in west and 1 was placed on the roof of
Qabba. When the matter of giving birth
was complete, i saw that unique child. He was in
Sajda (Prostration) and his finger was raised up. like
some one is praying with full concentration. Then i
saw a white cloud came down and hide the baby, he
was out of my sight. I heard some one saying "Take Muhammad(SAW) to
east and west, and take him to
seas also, so that every thing will recognize his name
and personality, and also that he(SAW) is a destroyer
too, and will destroy all the SHIRK.

Then he(SAW) appeared in front of my eyes. He(SAW)
was wearing a white dress at that time and under him was green silk.
He(SAW) was holding 3 keys
made of pearls in his hands and some one was
saying Mohammad(SAW) has captured the keys of
prophet ism, success and airs.
Then another cloud appeared and voice of horses
and birds were coming out of it. That cloud also hided him(SAW), and
went out of my sight again. I
hears some one saying "Take Mohammad(SAW) to
east and west and the places of prophets. And
introduce Genie, animals, birds and every type of
spiritual creatures to him. and give him properties of
Hazrat Adam, .....tears of Hazrat Nouh,....friendship of Ibrahim,
Hazrat Ismael's tongue, Hazrat Yakoob's
good news,Hazrat Yousuf's beauty, Hazrat Dawud's
voice, Hazrat Ayoob's patience, Hazrat Yahya's
piousy, Hazrat Esa's generosity and characteristics of
prophets.

He(SAW) again appeared in front of my eyes. This time a green silky
peace of cloth was in his hand.
Some one said "congratulations! Mohammad(SAW)
has captured whole world and all creatures are
under his control. Then i saw 3 people. one was
holding a silver bottle and other was holding white
silk which he oppend and took a stamp out of it. It was too shiny that
one feels blind. It was washed 7
times with the water of that bottle and then marked it
between the shoulders of Rasool Allah(SAW) and
then put it in silk cloth again. Then he(angel) hide
him between his wings for some time and then give
him(SAW) to me" (Al Khasis ul Qubra, 1:47-48)

Narrated by Hazrat Amina "i saw tall women, they
look like from the tribe of Abd Manaf. They gathered
me. I have never seen women with more bright
faces. One of them came forward, i rested at her (like
we take our back with chair) and then other one
came forward and offered me a drink which was whiter then milk, cooler
then ice and sweeter then
honey. she said with love "drink it" and i did. Second
said "drink more" and i did. and on my asking they
told me that they are Hazat Asia and Hazrat Mariam
and with them are hoors of heaven"
(Al Mohaib, 1:112) (Anwar al Mohamadia, 33)

There was trembling in holy Qaba for 2 days and 2
nights (qabaa was filled with almost 365 idle gods at
that time) and all the idles in it fall down. This was the
first sign of the birth of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).

Nosherwah (king of Iran) build a castle which was
said to be faultless. That castle trembled too heavely
that it had cracks in it. And 14 of its pillers (or
windows) fall down without any weakness.

In Faris fire used for worshiping was extinguished.
That fire was burning from 1 thousand years. Not
only that but the fire in all the worship places was
extinguished and no one was able to burn the fire
for worship that night.

Most of the people of the world worshiped idle gods
at that time. Among the leaders of quresh ..Warqa bin
nofel, zaid ibn e umar and Abdullah bin Habsh went
to there idle god and found it fallen down on its face.
They tried to lift it up on its feets and it fall down. And
it happened 3 times. Then there was a voice from that idle that "A
Child has born and with his light (noor)
East and West are brightened" (Seerat e Halbia vol 1)

River Sawa went dry. water in Samava Valley went
dry.

Saturday, 19 January 2013

Be Careful. Do not ever try to degrade our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam.To deny the day of our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sallalaho Alaihe Wassalam is a Bidat in Islam.





:::::::جشنِ میلاد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم پر ایک مکالمہ:::::: 
محمد عمر: السلام علیکم۔ 
ارمغان شیخ: وعلیکم اسلام ۔سنائے آج کیسے صبح صبح آگئے،دکان پرنہیں گئے؟
محمد عمر: آج تو عید میلادالنبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم ہے ، سارے مسلمان خوشیاں منا رہے ہے پیارے مصطفی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کی ولادت باسعادت کے موقعہ پر۔
ارمغان شیخ :اچھا تو آج سارے مسلمان عید منارہے ہیں؟؟
محمد عمر:کیا آپ لوگ نہیں مناتے؟
ارمغان شیخ:عیدیں تو اسلام میں صرف دوہی ہیں، (١)عید الفطر اور (٢)عیدلاضحی۔
محمد عمر:ارے جناب وہ عیدیں فرض ہیں، اور یہ نفلی عید، جیسے عرفۃ کا دن اور جمعۃ المبارک بھی نفلی عید ہے۔۔
ارمغان شیخ: اچھا آپ ذرا یہ بتائیں یہ جو تیسری عید ہے ، کیا اس عید والے دن عید گاہ جاکر نماز عید ادا کی جاتی ہے ؟
محمد عمر:ارے یار عید میلادالنبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کیونکہ نفلی عید ہے، اس لئے اس عید کی کوئی خاص نماز نہیں ہوتی، عام وقت کی 5 نمازیں ہی پڑھی جاتی ہے۔ کیا آپ مسلمان نہین ہے۔ جو اتنی بات بھی نہیں معلوم؟؟
ارمغان شیخ:باقی دوعیدوں کی نمازیں پھر آپ کیوں پڑھتے ہیں؟
محمد عمر:ارے بابا وہ فرض ہے ناں، آپ کیوں نفلی عید کی نماز سے دین میں کوئی بدعت جاری کرنا چاہ رہے ہیں؟؟
ارمغان شیخ:لیکن عید کی تو نماز ہوتی ہے ناں؟
محمد عمر:ارے بھائی ہر خوشی کو عید کہتے ہیں، اور خوشی کے نوافل تو ہوتے ہیں، لیکن کوئی فرض یا واجب نماز نہین ہوتی، کیوں صبح صبح دماغ کی دہی بنا رہے ہو؟؟۔

ارمغان شیخ:کیا عید میلادالنبی کی نماز پڑھنے کا حکم نہیں ہے ؟
محمد عمر: دیکھو! عید میلادالنبی کا معنی ہے آپ "نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کے پیدائش کی خوشی" اور خوشی کے نوافل آپ اس دن بخوشی ادا کرسکتے ہو، کوئی منع نہیں ہے، البتہ اس دن آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم نے اپنی ولادت کے دن کو یاد رکھتے ہوۓ نفلی روزہ بھی رکھا تھا۔
ارمغان شیخ:کیا عید میلادالنبی منانے کا کہیں حکم ہے ؟
محمد عمر:دیکھو سنت اور نفل کا حکم نہیں ہوتا پاگل، اگر حکم ہو جاۓ تو وہ چیز واجب یا فرض ہو جاتی ہے، سنت اور نفل کہتے ہی اسے ہے جو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم نے کیا، لیکن حکم نہیں دیا ۔
ارمغان شیخ:کیا اس کی نماز ِعید منع ہے ؟
محمد عمر:بڑے ہی بدّھو ہو تم، اتنی دیر سے سمجھا رہا ہوں کہ یہ نفلی عید ہے، پھر بھی تم اسے فرض عید پر قیاس کر رہے ہو، لگتا ہے تمھاری تو دماغ کی رگیں ہی بند ہو چکی ہے، سوچنے سمجھنے کے قابل ہی نہیں رہے تم۔
ارمغان شیخ:ارے تم جاہل ہو، بدعتی ہو، بتاؤ سہی سے آپ کہنا کیا چاہتے ہو؟
محمد عمر: او بھائی میں بتانا یہ چاہتاہوں کہ میلاد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلّم جہاں سب مسلمان مناتے ہیں، تو پھر تم اتنے سوال جواب کیوں کر رہے ہو، کیا تم مسلمان نہیں ہو؟؟؟


ارمغان شیخ: نہیں میں بس جاننا یہ چاہتا ہوں، کہ اسلام میں اس عید کا اگر کوئی ثبوت ہوتا، یا اگر یہ عید اسلام میں ہوتی تو باقی دوعیدوں کی طرح اسکی نماز بھی ہوتی ، اس کی فضیلت حدیث میں پائی جاتی ۔ اللہ کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم اس کے احکام اور مسائل کو بیان فرمائے ہوتے۔
محمد عمر:دیکھو میرے بھائی، اگر تمھیں عید کا ہی ثبوت چاہیئے، تو پہلے عید کے لفظی معنی دیکھ لو، پھر ان کو قران اور حدیث میں تلاش کر لو، ثبوت خود بخود مل جاۓ گا، اور رہی بات نماز کی، تو میرے پیارے بھائی نماز فرض یا واجب کا ہی حکم ہوتا ہے، اللہ کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم نے بس امت کو مشقت سے بچانے کیلئے نماز تراویح باجماعت ترک کر دی تھی، تو وہ کیسے ایک اور نماز کا اس دن کیلئے حکم فرماتے، اسی لئے انہوں نے اس دن کی خوشی مں روزہ رکھا، اور وہ بھی ایسے کہ اس کا بھی حکم نہیں فرمایا، تا کہ امت مشقت میں نہیں پڑ جاۓ، اور بات شوق اور محبت تک رہ گئ، کہ جس کا شوق ہو اور محبت ہو، اس کو بعد والے کچھ منافق و منکر بھی پیدا ہوں گے، وہ تنگ نہ کر سکین، اور ایک دلیل قائم کر دی آپ نے کہ جو میرے محبوب ہے، وہ اس دن کو ضرور یاد رکھیں گے۔ اور حکم اسی لئے نہیں فرمایا تا کہ فرض یا واجب نہ ہو جاۓ، اور امت اپنی آسانی کو دیکھتے ہوۓ اس دن خوشی کا اظہار کر سکیں، اسی لئے تو اہلسنت والجماعت میں لوگ اس دن کو روزہ بھی رکھتے ہیں، اور عید بھی کہتے ہیں، کہ یہ دونوں ہی نفلی ہے، لہذا دونوں ایک دوسرے کی حمایت کرتے ہیں، نفی نہیں کرتے۔


ارمغان شیخ: اچھا تو پھر جو لوگ یہ عید نہیں مناتے تو کیا وہ غلط کرتے ہیں؟
محمد عمر:دیکھو بھائی، اسلام مسلمانوں کے عمل کا نام نہیں ، بلکہ اسلام قرآن اور حدیث کا نام ہے، جو بات قرآن وحدیث سے ثابت ہو جاۓ وہ دین میں حجت ہو جاتی ہے، اور جس کا علم نہ ہو، وہ علم والوں سے پوچھ لیا جاتا ہے، کہ علم والوں سے پوچھنا بھی اللہ کا حکم ہے۔
ارمغان شیخ: لیکن ہمارے ڈاکٹر صاحب تو کہتے ہیں کہ یہ بدعت ہے۔
محمد عمر: یہ ڈاکٹر کون ہے؟
ارمغان شیخ: جی یہ دین کے بہت بڑے اسکالر ہے، اور ڈاکٹر بھی ہے۔
محمد عمر: دیکھو، ان ڈاکٹروں کو چھوڑوں، اللہ کے نبی نے علماء کو دین کا وارث کہا ہے، ڈاکٹروں کو نہیں۔ اور علماء وہ ہیں جنہوں نے اپنی ساری کی ساری زندگی ہی علم و عمل میں لگا دی۔
ارمغان شیخ: تو کیا مطلب یہ 3 سال ڈاکٹری پڑھنے والے جاہل ہے کیا؟؟
محمد عمر: دیکھو یار، ایسے تو ڈنگر ڈاکٹر بھی ڈاکٹری میں پانچ پانچ سال لگا دیتے ہین تو کیا وہ بھی اٹھ کر خود کو دین کا اسکالر لکھ لیں؟، اور افسوس کی بات کہ لکھ بھی لیتے ہیں، اور ایسے ہی لوگ پھر میلاد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم پر لعن طعن کرنے لگتے ہیں، کیونکہ وہ بظاہر اللہ کے نبی سے محبت کے دعویدار ہوتے ہیں> اور اندر ہی اندر ریالوں اور ڈالروں کے چندوں کی خاطر اپنا دین ایمان عزت غیرت سب بیچ چکے ہوتے ہیں، او رپھر اسی طرح اللہ نے ان کو ان کے راستوں پر ہی مطمئن کر دیا ہوتا ہے، اور تیشک ان کے دل نفاق سے بھڑے پڑے ہیں؟


ارمغان شیخ: یہ کیسے ہوسکتا ہے کہ ایک مسلمان اللہ کے رسول سے محبت بھی کرتا ہو اور آپ کی پیدائش کا دن بھی خاموشی سے گزاردے؟
محمد عمر:ایسا ہوسکتا ہے اور ہوا ہے ۔اب خود ہی دیکھو میلاد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم اصل میں ہے ہی کیا؟ یعنی آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کے پیدا ہونے کی خوشی۔ تو خود ہی بتاؤ اس پیدائش سے کس کو تکلیف ہو سکتی ہے؟ آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم سے محبت رکھنے والوں کو یا آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم سے بغض و عداوت رکھنے والے اسلام کے دشمنوں کو؟؟ ارمغان شیخ: اور یہ جو عیسائی اپنے نبی کی پیدائش پر کرسمس مناتے ہیں ،تو کیا یہ عیسائیوں سے مشابہت نہیں؟
محمد عمر: عیسائی تو اپنے نبی کو خدا اور خدا کا بیٹا بھی کہتے ہیں، لیکن ہم مسلمان تو ایسا نہیں کہتے ناں، بلکہ ہم تو پیارے مصطفی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کو اللہ کا بندہ اور رسول کہتے اور مانتے ہیں، اور پھر ویسے تو کپڑے وہ بھی پہنتے ہیں، تم بھی پہنتے ہو، کھانا وہ بھی کھاتے ہیں تم بھی کھاتے ہو، وہ بھی سوتے ہیں تم بھی سوتے ہو۔۔ مشابہت تو پھر ہو گئ ناں؟؟ یعنی پتہ چلا کہ ان کے غلط کاموں میں برے کاموں میں ان سے مشابہت نہیں ہو، یا دینی معاملات میں ان سے مشابہت نہیں ہو، لہذا وہ حضرت عیسی علیہ السلام کو(استغفر اللہ) اللہ کا بیٹا کہہ کر کرسمس مناتے ہیں، لیکن ہم مسلمان اہلسنت والجماعت آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کی سنت کے مطابق نفلی روزہ رکھ کے یا آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کی تعریف و توصیف بیان کر کے اس کا بندہ اور رسول مانتے ہوۓ یہ دن مناتے ہیں، پھر مشابہت کیسے ہوئی؟؟

ارمغان شیخ: لیکن ہمارے ڈاکٹر صاحب اور محلے کے مولوی صاحب بھی تو کہتے ہیں کے عید میلاد النبی ایک فضول ہی رسم ہے۔
محمد عمر: اللہ بیڑہ غرق کرے ان ڈاکٹروں اور ڈاکٹرنیوں کا جنہوں نے آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کی ولادت کے دن کو خاص کرنا اور اس سنت رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کو فضول رسم کہا، یہی تو بات ہے، کہ تم لوگوں نے بھی اہل یہود کی طرح اپنے ڈاکٹروں اور مولویوں کو ہی اپنا خدا بنا لیا ہے، ورنہ میلاد کا ذکر تو قران و حدیث مین ہے۔ اور اگر یہ برا کام ہوتا تو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کبھی اس کا ذکر نہ کرتے، بلکہ منع فرما دیتے اس سے بھی۔۔۔




ارمغان شیخ: لیکن ہمارے تو امّی ابّو بھی نہیں مناتے یہ میلاد النبی۔
محمد عمر: دیکھو، اللہ قران مین فرماتے ہین، کہ وَ اِذَا قِیْلَ لَهُمْ تَعَالَوْا اِلٰى مَاۤ اَنْزَلَ اللّٰهُ وَ اِلَى الرَّسُوْلِ قَالُوْا حَسْبُنَا مَا وَجَدْنَا عَلَیْهِ اٰبَآءَنَا١ؕ اَوَ لَوْ كَانَ اٰبَآؤُهُمْ لَا یَعْلَمُوْنَ شَیْـًٔا وَّ لَا یَهْتَدُوْنَ۝۱۰۴ یعنی، (اور جب ان سے کہا جائے آؤ اس طرف جو اللہ نے اتارا اور رسول کی طرف (ف۲۴۹) کہیں ہمیں وہ بہت ہے جس پر ہم نے اپنے باپ دادا کو پایا کیا اگرچہ ان کے باپ دادا نہ کچھ جانیں نہ راہ پر ہوں ) ابھی خود ہی اندازہ لگاؤ، کہ اگر تمھارے ماں باپ جہالت کی ہی زندگی گزار رہے ہو، تو تمھیں ان کو سمجھانا چاہیے صحیح اور سیدھا راستہ دیکھ کر یا پھر سب کچھ جان کر بھی جہالت کی موت ہی انہیں بھی دے دینی چاہۓ اور خود بھی اسی موت سے مر جانا چاہیے؟؟؟

ارمغان شیخ: لیکن نہ بابا نہ،، میرا ایمان بڑا مضبوط ہے، میں تو میلاد نہیں مناؤ گا۔ یہ تو بدعت ہے۔
محمد عمر:اچھا چلو یہ بتاؤ، کہ کیا تم لوگ اپنے گھر پیدا ہونے والے بچے کی خوشی نہیں مناتے؟؟؟؟
ارمغان شیخ: خوشی منانے اور خوش ہونے میں فرق ہے ۔
محمد عمر: ارے یہ کیا بات ہوئی؟
ارمغان شیخ: جناب بچے کی پیدائش پر ہر انسا ن فطری طور پر خوش ہوتا ہے کہ مذہبی طور پر؟
محمد عمر: میرے خال سے فطرت کا مذہب سے بڑا گھرا تعلق ہے، لہذا انسان جب تک مذہبی خوشی قبول نہ کرے اسے فطری خوشی حاصل ہو ہی نہیں سکتی۔
ارمغان شیخ: مجھے تو تمھاری کوئی بات سمجھ نہین آ رہی پتہ نہیں تم کیا کہہ رہے ہو؟۔
محمد عمر: دیکھو جہاں تک خوشی منانے کا تعلق ہے تو اس کے لئے بھی شریعت نے ساتویں دن عقیقہ کرنے کا حکم دیا ہے،اور بارہ ربیع الاول کو تو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم نے خود ہی روزہ رکھ کر بتا دیا، کہ یہ دن ان کیلئے خوشی کا دن ہے، اب تم ہی بتاؤ جس دن کو نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم بھی خوشی کا دن منا رہے ہو، اور اس کا خاص ذکر بھی فرما رہے ہو، تو پھر امت کیلئے اس دن کو منانا حرام اور بدعت کیسے ہو گیا؟؟؟
ارمغان شیخ: لیکن یہ بھی تو ہے کہ میلاد النبی تو ابولہب نے بھی دنیا کے عام رواج کے مطابق اپنی لونڈی آزاد کر کے منایا تھا، لیکن اس کو تو عداوت تھی نبی سے، پھر یہ کیا میلاد منانا طریقۂ ابولہبی نہ ہوا؟؟
محمد عمر: او میرے بھولے بھائی، مسلمان لوگ میلاد النبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم منانے کیلئے ابولہب کی دلیل لونڈي آزاد کرنا نہیں بیان کرتے، بلکہ اس لونڈی کے آزاد کرنے سے اس کے عذاب میں جو تخفیف ہو رہی ہے، اس کا ذکر کرتے ہیں، جو اللہ کے فضل و کرم کی طرف اشارہ ہے، کہ ایک بندہ جو کافر مرا، اور ساری زندگی اس نے آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کے نبی و رسول ہونے کے واسطے سے ان کو نہایت اذیت پہنچائی، لیکن اس کے باوجود بھی اس کو آقا علیہ السلام کی پیدائش کی خوشی میں کیا گیا عمل رائیگاں نہیں گیا، بلکہ وہ عمل بھی اسے فائدہ دے رہا ہے، بلاشبہ وہ کافر ہی مرا، اور قیامت تک لعنت حاصل کرنے والوں میں نام رہا، لیکن پھر بھی میلاد مصطفی کی برکت سے وہ کچھ سکون حاصل کرتا ہے۔

ارمغان شیخ: پتہ نہیں تم کیا ادھر ادھر کی باتیں کر رہے ہو، مجھے تو کچھ سمجھ نہین آ رہی۔
محمد عمر: میں تو بس اتنا بتانا چاہ رہا ہوں، کہ عید میلاد النبی منانا بدعت نہیں، بلکہ اس کا انکار بدعت ہے۔ اور کیونکہ اس انکار سے ایک سنت ترک ہو رہی ہے، تو اس لئے یہ بدعت سیئہ ہے، جو گمراہی ہے۔ اور ہر گمراہی جھنم میں ہی لے جانے والی ہے۔

ارمغان شیخ: اچھا جی وہ کیسے؟
محمد عمر: دیکھو، ایک عمل جو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم سے ثابت ہے، جو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کی پیدائش کے وقت ابولہب کے طریقے سے بھی ثابت ہے، تو وہ بدعت (یعنی نئ ایجاد) تو ہو ہی نہین سکتا، اور پھر ابولہب کے عذاب میں تخفیف، اور آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کا خود اس دن کا روزہ رکھنا بتاتا ہے، کہ یہ عمل نہ ہی بدعت ہے، اور نہ ہی شریعت کے خلاف۔ لہذا پتہ چلا کہ اس کا انکار بعد میں ایجاد ہوا، اور کچھ نادان اور دین میں فتنہ پیدا کرنے والے شیطانوں نے یہ انکار ایجاد کیا، ورنہ اس کی کوئی اصل نہین ملتی، کہ یہ انکار کب سے جاری ہوا۔۔۔ اس لئے صحیح معنوں مین اس کا انکار ہی بدعت ہے۔ اور یہ بدعت ترک سنت ہے، اس لئے گمراہی و ضلالہ ہے، جو ہے ہی جھنم کا راستہ۔

ارمغان شیخ: میں نہیں مانتا، یہ سب جھوٹ ہے۔
محمد عمر: ارے یار ہر چیز تم کو قران و حدیث سے سنا رہا ہوں، پھر بھی نہین مانتے؟؟
ارمغان شیخ: میں اپنے ڈاکٹر صاحب سے پوچھ کر بتاؤں گا۔۔
محمد عمر: اوۓ کیا تم نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کے سامنے اپنے ڈاکٹر یا ڈاکٹرنی کی بات مانو گے؟
ارمغان شیخ: نہیں یہ بات نہیں، لیکن ہمارے ڈاکٹر صاحب تو یہ بھی کہتے ہیں، کہ 12 ربیع الاوّل میلاد شریف نہیں، بلکہ 12 ربیع الاوّل تو نبی کی وفات کا دن تھا۔
محمد عمر: دیکھو بھائی، یہ تو ایسا مذاق ہے دین کے ساتھ کہ پوچھو مت، حضرت ابن عباس رضی اللہ عنہ درج فرما رہے ہے کہ آپ کی پیدائش 12 ربیع الاوّل کو ہوئی، اور پھر جمہور علماء اور ہر مؤرخ نے اس تاریخ کو رقم فرمایا ہے، اور پھر ہم تو کہتے ہیں، کہ چلو تمھارے مطابق 9 ربیع الاوّل ہے ناں، تو 9 تاریخ کو ہی میلاد منا لو، جھگڑا کیس چیز کا؟ اور یہ جو کہتے ہین کہ وفات کا دن 12 ربیع الاوّل تھا، تو وہ تو ہے ہی جھوٹے کذّاب، گمراہ لوگ ہیں حود بھی، اور امت کو بھی گمراہ کر کے فتنۂ و فساد کو دعوت دیتے رہتے ہیں، حالانکہ 12 ربیع الاوّل کسی بھی طریقے سے وفات کا دن بنتا ہی نہیں اور نہ ہی ثابت ہے۔ یہ خارجیوں اور منافقوں کی پھیلائی ہوئی جھوٹی روایات ہیں۔۔


ارمغان شیخ: اف میرے خدایا، اتنی بڑي حقیقت چھپائی گئ؟
محمد عمر: جی جناب، کیا آپ اب بھی پیارے رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلّم کے میلاد شریف کی خوشی نہیں منائیں گے؟؟
ارمغان شیخ: نہین بھائی کیوں نہیں۔۔۔ آپ نے تو مجھے حقیقت سے آشکار کر دیا، ان شا اللہ میں آج ہی آپ کے ساتھ اپنے گھر اور محلے کو بھی سجاؤں گا۔ اور آپ کو نعت بھی سناؤں گا، میں بھی مسلمان سچا عمل کرنے والا عاشق رسول بننا چاہتا ہوں، بھائی کیا آپ مجھے نعت پڑھنا سکھاۓ گے ناں؟؟
محمد عمر: کیوں نہیں بھائی، ان شا اللہ،،، چلو ابھی چلیں گھر کافی ٹائم ہو گیا ہے۔ تم نے آج میرا بڑا دماع کھایا ہے، لیکن خوشی ہے کہ ہدایت والے بن گئے ہو، اب کبھی ان خارجی دجالوں کے وسوسوں میں نہیں آنا۔
ارمغان شیخ: جی آپ نے ٹھیک کہا، ان شا اللہ ایسا ہی ہو گا۔
محمد عمر: تو پھر زور سے ایک نعرہ لگاؤ میرے ساتھ،،،،، سرکار کی آمد؟؟؟؟
ارمغان شیخ: مرحبا، مرحبا، مرحبا۔۔۔

صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلّم تسلیما کثیرا
طالب دعا: (سعد حمید)